A live, faith-based workshop to help you stay calm, set boundaries, and respond with grace when family pushes your buttons.
Thursday, November 12
4:00 to 5:30 pm PT / 7:00 to 8:30 pm ET
Live online + replay
You know the moment
Maybe you've wondered, "If I just prayed more, wouldn't this be easier?"
Friend, here's the truth: when someone pushes a button that's been there for years, your body reacts before your mind can catch up. That's your nervous system alerting you, and it's not a lack of faith.
That's why knowing what to say isn't enough on its own. When your body is on high alert, even the right words can disappear.
So we do both: calm your body first, then use words you've already prepared. That's when you can speak the truth in love.
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I've sat at that table
For years, I had family members who brought chaos to the holidays and made them miserable. Every. Single. Year.
What changed things for me was learning to calm my nervous system and uphold the boundaries that mattered most. That's what brought greater peace to my holidays, and it's what I want for you.
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The ABCs of Holiday Peace
When your heart is pounding, you won't remember a 12-step plan. But remembering your ABCs is easy.
- A: Anchor. Calm your body and turn to God before you walk in.
- B: Boundary. Decide ahead of time what you will and won't engage with.
- C: Communicate. Speak calmly and clearly.
- D: Disengage. Know what to do when someone pushes past your boundary.
- E: Entrust. Release the outcome, the hurt, and the replaying to God.
You'll walk away with:
- A calming practice you can use in the car, the bathroom, or right at the table
- Words that work for the comments you know are coming
- A plan for when your boundaries get pushed
- Your own Holiday Peace Plan, before Thanksgiving
Early Bird: Save $10 on any seat through Nov. 1!
Use Promo Code: ABC10
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Why VIP? Learning the ABCs is one thing. Using them with family is another. The very next morning (11/13 at 9 am PT / 12 pm ET), we'll go deeper together in small group coaching:
- Your triggers: why certain people and comments hit so hard, and how to recognize your body's early warning signs before you react
- Your boundaries: how to set and hold them with the specific people in your life, even the ones who push back
- Your GRACE Response Cards: we'll walk through them together and practice the responses out loud, so the words feel natural when you need them
- Your situation: bring the moment you're dreading, and let's walk through it together.
What if I can't make it live?
Isn't setting boundaries unloving?
What is faith-based coaching?
What's included with VIP?
The Holidays Are Coming, and this year can be different...
You can choose to walk in prepared.
The ABCs of Holiday Peace
- Thursday, November 12
- 4:00 to 5:30 pm PT / 7:00 to 8:30 pm ET
- Live on Zoom + replay
Save yourself a seat for holiday peace!
Blessings,
Julie
P.S. Early bird pricing ends Sunday, November 1: $37 for General Admission, $87 for VIP with code: ABC10. Want help with your own family situation? VIP includes small group coaching and Q&A the very next morning.
